Day: May 26, 2011


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Ok, so people who read my blog know I am big on family….my own and my in-laws too. But lest you believe I think too highly of them all, I want to post an article of Dave Miller’s that I think is such a good article on where MUST we place our top affections.

Water is Thicker than Blood

By Dave Miller, Ph.D.

The human relationships that exist between individuals who are physically kin to each other can, indeed, be precious and beautiful. In fact, God was responsible for creating the family framework (Genesis 2:24). Ideally, He intends for people to experience the warm, tender ties of blood kin and the multiple blessings associated with such ties. Perspective is lost, however, when physical ties are permitted to interfere with obedience to God. God’s point is missed when a higher premium is placed on physical family than on spiritual family, when a Christian fails to relish to a greater degree association with the family of God—the church.

The Bible teaches that Christians should not hesitate for a moment to relinquish fleshly relationships if it becomes necessary to do so in order to put God first (Luke 14:20,24). Commenting on the status of His own blood relatives, Jesus declared: “Whoever does the will of My Father in heaven is My brother and sister and mother” (Matthew 12:50). He recognized that the stringency of His teaching would disrupt family relationships, and so He stated that “a man’s foes will be those of his own household” (Matthew 10:36).

He even went so far as to relegate physical ties to the comparative level of hatred when contrasted to the priority of spiritual ties: “If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple” (Luke 14:26). [For a discussion of the meaning of “hate” in this verse, see Butt, 2003.]

Such explains why, during the Mosaic period of Bible history, Aaron was not permitted to mourn the deaths of his two sons (Leviticus 10:6). Such explains why the wives, and even some children, perished along with Korah, Dathan, and Abiram, as they apparently were unwilling to oppose the blood ties of kinfolk who sinned (Numbers 16:27,32-33). Such explains why the people were to show no pity for their relatives who promoted false teaching, but were to lead the way in the execution process (Deuteronomy 13:6-11).

Yes, the family ties of blood kin can be extremely wonderful, providing unending security and acceptance, and frequently fulfill an important, divinely intended function. But these same blood ties can be the very thing that diverts a Christian from the strait and narrow, discouraging one from standing strongly and firmly on the solid bedrock of truth and right. Itis imperative that God’s church be put first—even above family (Matthew 6:33).

First allegiance and loyalty must be given to those who have been cleansed by the blood of Christ by passing through the waters of baptism (Ephesians 5:6; Titus 3:5; Hebrews 10:22). For with God, water is thicker than blood.

By Dave Miller, Ph.D.

Copyright © 2010 Apologetics Press, Inc. All rights reserved.

Note: It’s such a wonderful thing when your physical family is also part of your spiritual family.



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 I pressed ‘share’ on one of my friend’s links this morning, so it would be on my profile page…her little eleven year old niece singing Amazing Grace.

It is so beautiful and if I had not pressed ‘share’ soon, it would have been so far back on her page that I would not have been able to find it. This way I can share the little girl’s singing with my friends on Facebook also.

So much like family life and Christianity. There’s something good that we have and if we don’t share it with our children while we can…someday, when we are gone, it will be so far back in their past, they are not aware that they can have it too…Or maybe they will just forget it and not be interested any more.  What a tragedy!

The beautiful thing about sharing Christianity with our children, is that it will be shared by them too, on down to generations that we may never see. Now that is a thought I can dwell on.

Proverbs 22:6…”Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.”

-Written August 25, 2010